# Choosing means inviting life [[Choisir, c'est renoncer]]. Making choices is choosing consciously. Choosing to live a life that is more in line with our aspirations and desire for freedom. Choosing means inviting life. It's preferring to make tough choices rather than to refrain, live in fear and have regrets. [[Choosing is refusing]]. Refusing to let go of our dreams. Refusing to let ourselves down. Choosing is respecting ourselves and how to be our greatest lover (cfr [[How can I be my greatest lover]]).